People
that know us would probably agree that we don’t spoil our kids—at least not
with material possessions anyway. But we
do love to indulge them with typical
childhood experiences and this includes annual birthday parties. In fact, our
youngest daughter's been looking forward to
it since we’ve returned home.
After
all, last year’s birthday had to be improvised.
As she was only turning 4 then, she still did not fully grasp that we
would not be able to have a birthday party with her friends and family in
attendance as we were in India. For her,
a birthday party was a prerequisite to turning a year older!
So even
though she’s 5 this year, she has yet to abandon her love of parties. For weeks, we (not her) stressed about what
sort of party and where we’d have it.
Typically, her dad and I are fond of backyard parties, but with her birthday
occurring in the middle of our Southern Hemisphere winter, going this route
would be a risky one. Nevertheless, we compromised
and booked a ‘Fairy’ entertainer and set about tidying up our rumpus room to welcome
10 little fairies.
10 Little Fairies |
When the day finally arrived, Yasmine was over the moon with excitement. She was a lovely hostess and had a great time. We were especially proud of Maddy too, who showed a tremendous amount of maturity and understanding on Yasmine’s special day.
But her
special day didn’t end there.
Ever
since Maddy got her ears’ pierced on her birthday last year, Yasmine has been
mustering up the courage to do the same.
She was determined to go through with it, on her actual birthday, and to
‘be brave’ and to not scream!
She did
herself (and us) proud, although a tear did slip through at the end. While she did admit that it hurt, her
determination and will saw her through it (biting on her teddy’s arm also
helped!). She was even more proud of the
fact that she’s had hers done at aged 5, where as Maddy was 6—just a little sibling rivalry going on there!
So we
have one happy and satisfied little lady now.
While travel brought with it wonderful experiences and opportunities,
being at home allows for the kids to ‘just
be kids’, which at their particular age and stage, seems to be just what
they want.
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